But the reason behind all of this is that loads of ladies have been taught to treat their pleasure as something secondary, leaving them at a loss for words when it comes to communicating what they want, need and desire.
While young boys see male masturbation in every other movie, it’s only recently that we’re seeing women make themselves scream on the silver screen.
What does this mean for women faking orgasms?
It means female orgasms are seen as this mythical thing that only wizards of vaginas can summon, and it’s not healthy. Anyone can make a woman climax, with enough communication, possibly some lube and a whole lotta consent.
Even though orgasms are Oh sO lOvely, they’re not the benchmark of amazing sex. You can cum countless times or not even once, that doesn’t change the quality of your experience. If we take the pressure off ourselves and our partners and focus on intimacy, great things can come out of it: